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A Few Tips for Biker Men Who Have Trouble Finding a Date


Someone wise once said: “There are plenty fish in the sea”. But sometimes it does feel like we are at wrong part of the sea when it comes to dating. However, there is no need for despair, as good things come to those who wait.

As a biker myself, I ran into difficulties trying to find someone who will go on a date with me. At first it occurred to me that women aren’t interested in biker dating at all. Boy was I wrong. After countless failed attempts, I finally realized there was something odd. After a while I understood that there are lots of misunderstandings concerning bikers in general. I will share my experience with you and hopefully help some of you find a date.

Be Honest, Be Yourself

First thing I realized is that some women tend to get intimidated by bikers at first glance. I found out about this from a girl I politely asked at a local bar. So worry not, you don’t have to change who you are, how you look or what you wear. The key is to be respectful and polite when you talk to girls. It’s a great help to have a wingman buddy at your side. If the crowd sees that you are cheerful and funny, then they will loosen up and be more open minded. There is a stigma about bikers that make people think we are criminals and gang members, it’s important to prove them otherwise, if you want to increase your chances of dating a nice girl.

Don’t Lose Hope

Rejection is a nasty business. It can really mess with your head. It will make you question yourself and every decision you make. After a while you start to plan your words carefully, which in turn leads to people assuming you are dull-witted with a stick up your butt. At one point I even consulted a biker dating site for pieces of advice. Rejection is just a part of dating you learn from your mistakes and move on. The more you try the more stuff you learn and get better at it. Sooner or later you will succeed. The faster you understand that fact the faster you will find a date. Be confident and relaxed, those are really important.

Boy Scout or Outlaw?

Good guy or bad guy? This depends on your personality and what kind of women are you interested in. Some girls like nice guys, while some girls prefer dating a douche bag. It’s up to you really. Regardless of which you prefer- I do have an advice for you. Don’t over think things and don’t be over confident. You will come off as either clumsy or irritating, find a silver lining and be yourself to the fullest.

I hope these tips might come in handy for some if not all of you. I struggled for a while, and in times I thought of giving up for good. Now I am married to a wonderful woman of my dreams. It takes time and patience, but you will find your perfect match if you try hard enough.

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