If you are a first time sexter, try to keep it simple. Sometimes you don’t need to say anything dirty to get the conversation going. Talk about regular stuff, your day or something like that, but always keep a sexual undertone. “Innocent” conversation like this can be sometimes more thrilling than a direct “I want to get in your pants”. Be a tease, and you’ll soon see that that smoke will turn into a flame.
Don’t have time to be vague? You’re in need of a quick sexting before you’re off to work? Ok, change your strategy. Start by saying what you want to do to that person – in the most direct way possible. Turn your kink on and let your imagination run wild. Don’t worry, you won’t have to continue writing for very long. The person on the other end will quickly get on board. And if they don’t, well, that’s the power of the web. There is always someone out there who will be on the same page as you at the moment. Search for your match on kik sexting forum or snap sex forum, and you will surely find a person who shares your fantasies.
Ok, this one includes a little more imagination, but it can be really fun (and hot)! Have you ever wanted to be some Marvel or DC character? Yes, they are usually hot, rich and powerful, and at that moment so are you. It might be easier to write down those dirty thoughts that are multiplying in your head when you are Batman or Wonder woman ‘cause – you aren’t the one texting those thing, they are. And a good role play is always a big turn on. Give it a try!
You are a peaceful person who is too shy to try something kinkier? When you’re sexting with a stranger there is no room for shame. At the end, they have no idea who you are. So go crazy and write all of your BDSM fantasies, and you’ll see you are not the only one who is turned on by chains and whips.
When you are sexting with a person, only you two are chatting, but that doesn’t mean that your story can’t include another woman or a man. You can start by including that character almost naively (there’s a knock on the door), and see where it takes you. If you never had a threesome in real life, this is your chance to try it out.