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What Fetishization Does to BBW Community?


Although there are guys who simply like women with a little more meat on their bones, there are those who eroticize obesity. Because of these fetishists, a lot of women are sick of BBW dating. Honestly, finding love can be really complicated if you have no idea whether a guy is interested in you because of you or because of the number on your scale. But in what ways has fetishization affected big girls exactly? We did some digging and here are the results.

They don’t like online dating as much as they used to

It is so easy to talk someone online because they have no idea who you are. Therefore, you don’t have to pretend that you are someone you’re not. Ironically, when people are hidden behind their keyboards, the masks fall off, and that’s when all those creeps reveal their real faces. While they would never openly discuss their fetishes with a girl in real life, they fire away all those questions about your weight or your belly online. It is not easy to spot them in real life, but online they just poke you in the eye.

They feel disrespected

A lot of chubby girls had no idea they are in a relationship with a fetishist until it was too late. These guys weren’t interested in supporting them emotionally; they were just into their bodies. Skinny or big, when a man cares only about the part below your neck, you stop feeling special and start feeling completely disrespected.

They hate being labeled

When a guy is really into a girl in every way possible, he doesn’t even mention her size. He knows how to make her feel sexy and desired without ever saying anything about her weight. However, when they start mentioning labels like BBW, that’s when these ladies stop feeling like women and start feeling like objects.

They’ve learned to recognize it

Inexperienced girls often mistake fetishization for a compliment. Hearing that they have a great figure, that their belly turns him on or that their breasts look amazing makes them feel good at the beginning, but as they mature, they start realizing that these guys see them as sexual objects, nothing more, nothing less. Finally, when they have dated their fair share of creeps, they get annoyed and frustrated whenever one of these guys approaches them.

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